Pewter's Tea Party
Lisa Marie Negele
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(Lisa Marie Negele, April 1, 2011)
All children must learn to accept the physical and mental disabilities that affect some people. It is inevitable that they will encounter individuals who are blind, hearing-impaired, mentally-retarded or physically-impaired in some way. Teaching children that such challenges are not cause for discomfort, embarrassment, ridicule or fear is important. This informative story will assist parents in tackling this challenging topic with their kids.A dapper young cat named Sterling is hosting a tea party for a number of friends. Another feline, Pearl, is accompanied by two canine companions, Rocky and Jag. As the friends make their tea selections and add cream, sugar or lemon to suit their individual preferences, Sterling welcomes another guest to his party. A stunning, white kitten named Opal, who was born with a paralyzed paw, joins the group.Rocky, Jag and Pearl had not met Opal previously so they all paid attention as Sterling introduced her. In short order, each of the trio noticed Opal's physical impairment.Pearl feels so uncomfortable that she quickly averts her gaze and refuses to look at Opal. Rocky becomes overly accommodating and persists in asking Opal if he can aid her in some way. Jag quietly approaches Opal and guides her to a chair. He then pulls it out for her and helps her sit down.The actions of the group become apparent to Opal, and she realizes her disability is causing them to feel ill at ease. This in turn embarrasses her and make her uncomfortable.Sterling is troubled by the awkwardness of his peers and intervenes. He directly acknowledges Opal's birth defect in front of the group, and then he openly praises her ability to enjoy and participate in all the same activities as his other feline friends. Opal interjects that, while she has to work harder than other cats to climb trees, poles and the like, she truly enjoys doing so. Her candid comments encourage Rocky to ask if she feels pain in her deformed paw. When Opal assures him that she has no pain in her paralyzed limb, Rocky is quite relieved. He feels even better when she continues her explanation, and he discovers that her birth defect is in no way contagious.Pewter remains dissatisfied with the manner in which his friends are behaving toward Opal, so he reminds them that each person is unique and special. He further encourages them that it is important to accept others as they are and to not be judgmental, critical, rude or unkind.His words make an impact, and Pearl heartily agrees with Sterling. She then invites Opal to climb with her one day in the not too distant future. Opal is delighted and eagerly accepts the invitation.Unfortunately, Rocky continues to stare at Opal, so Pewter scolds him. He reiterates the importance of accepting others as they are and treating them as we wish to be treated in return.Jag interrupts the admonishment to request that Opal join him for a day of jumping. Opal excitedly informs Jag that she loves to jump and assures him that he will be impressed by her jumping skills. Bolstered by the behavior of Pearl and Jag, Opal asks a still uncomfortable Rocky what he enjoys doing. Rocky responds that he loves to run and scamper, and Opal happily exclaims that she, too, enjoys running. When she invites him to run with her, Rocky accepts. He also apologizes for his rude behavior.Reading this informative story is an entertaining and fun way to address a serious topic with your children. You can help them learn acceptance and compassion, as well as educate them on the physical and mental impairments that some people face. Providing them tools to know how to appropriately respond will go a long way in avoiding inappropriate, embarrassing or unkind reactions.The tale will be engaging for children ages 2 to 10. Read it at bedtime, naptime or any time!