My Dad The Magician
Damian Powell
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(Pinfold Media, Sept. 7, 2016)
Have you ever lost someone you really loved?Did you wish the news could have been delivered in a softer way?Now imagine you were 7 years old like the star of this short story, Eric Jones.His Dad is his best friend, and the journey they take together from July to Xmas day is an adventure no family should ever have to face. The bond between father and son is immeasurable, and this is put to the test when Eric's dad starts to share his incredible interest in magic with his son, leading to him revealing that he has developed the ultimate disappearing trick.Eric, throughout the next few months, learns some facts about his father's health through a magical and cleverly told tale, instead of the harsh truth that would be too much for any child to take on board, or even to understand. This precious time they spend together in those 6 months turns into something magical and heart-warming. It is a story that will touch many hearts and without doubt strike a chord with most people.The story has it's climaxes and although explores life's realities, does finish with a positive note reminding all who read it that life is short and has to be lived now and with love.A must read for any family member. Forward by Dr Paul McCormac - Clinical Psychologist I've known Damian for as long as I can remember - my memories of Damian go back to burying each other in the biggest sandpit ever in his back garden and exploring the small wooded area behind the back of the house he grew up in. The Jungle, as it was known to all the neighbourhood kids, was a place for imaginations to run wild. I also remember a garden full of chickens and rabbits and camping trips to his family farm. Damian has an unending capacity to see the lighter side of life and I don't think we had a serious conversation for 20 of those 40+ years. Yet he has a capacity to say what needs to be said at the right time and in the right quantity that I've always admired. My Mate Damian the Magician has worked some of this magic of his into his book. My Dad the Magician gently encourages us to think about the inevitable finality of life and to contemplate how we might engage in conversations with those to whom the losses matter the most. I can envisage My Dad being used to initiate those conversations with a necessary gentleness and playfulness without skirting around a confronting issue. In my own work as a Clinical Psychologist I often see the suffering that people of any age can be left with when there is an unexplained loss where there has been no preparation or planning. This book would make an invaluable resource to parents and children to begin those seemingly impossible conversations. Readers of My Dad will be reminded of the priceless value of the relationships we might hope to have with our children. You will be reminded of the importance of making the most of being available to children with whatever time we hope we have to give them. You will also be encouraged to think about the true value of that time poured into those relationships with children in preparing them for their losses and grief. If you are contemplating your own conversations with children about loss and grief or know of someone who is I don’t think you could go far wrong in using or recommending My Dad the Magician as a place to start that journey. Dr Paul McCormac Clinical Psychologist B.Sc. (Hons), D.Clin.Psych., Member of the Australian Psychological Society Member of the Australian College of Clinical Psychologists