Get to Grips with the Helping Hands
Rhona Birrell-Weisen
Hardcover
(Melrose Books, Oct. 29, 2006)
This self-help guide explains how hands can serve as a reminder of 10 essential life skills. This is literally the hands-on approach to the demands and challenges of daily life. The must-have life skills on the Helping Hands are grouped in pairs: creative and critical thinking, communication and caring; decision making and problem solving; expressing emotions and reducing stress; self-awareness and empathy. Each skill is represented by a finger and its pair is the equivalent finger on the other hand. Essential elements of each skill are explained in simple terms and summarised visually as small pictures, which are later reduced to symbols small enough to fit on fingertips! Each skill is clearly explained before advice is given on how to apply it. How life skills work together is explained and everyday examples are given to show how life skills are put into practice, for example, making friends, dealing with bullies and getting on with one's family. Pictures and symbols illustrate the skills and the text is clear and concise. All of this together with the Helping Hands poem ensures that even quite young readers can remember the important points. Get to Grips with the Helping Hands builds on the experience gained by the author during almost a decade of work with the World Health Organisation in Geneva. As Technical Officer of the WHO Life Skills Project and editor of the WHO Newsletter, Skills for Life, she collaborated with international experts and other UN agencies, notably UNICEF, to support the advancement of life-skills education in national level initiatives. A recurring concern throughout this work was how do you ensure that young people use life skills when they most need them, such as in the heat of an argument, during a moment of intense peer pressure or when most anxious and in need With this concern in mind, and faced with her own son's difficulties at school, the author wanted to create a life skills learning tool that captures the essence of bas