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Books in Best Behavior series

  • Voices Are Not for Yelling

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, March 18, 2015)
    English-Spanish bilingual editions of titles in Free Spirit’s popular Best Behavior series. The toddler years are full of growth and smiles and sweetness—but also tantrums. With toddlers, yelling, screaming, wailing, and flailing are a normal part of life. Very young children don’t yet have the words to express strong feelings, and they’re still learning social skills. This board book helps little ones understand why it’s better to use an indoor voice—“so people hear the words and not the yelling”—and how to calm down and ask for help so they can get what they need. Also includes tips for parents and caregivers. The Best Behavior series uses simple words and delightful full-color illustrations to guide children to choose peaceful, positive behaviors. Select titles are available in two versions: a durable board book for ages baby–preschool, and a longer, more in-depth paperback for ages 4–7. Kids, parents, and teachers love these award-winning books. All include helpful tips and ideas for parents and caregivers.
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  • Hands Are Not for Hitting

    Martine Agassi Ph.D., Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, Feb. 15, 2002)
    It’s never too soon for children to learn that violence is never okay, hands can do many good things, and everyone is capable of positive, loving actions.In this bright, inviting, durable board book, simple words and full-color illustrations teach these important concepts in ways even very young children can understand.Created in response to requests from parents, preschool teachers, and childcare providers, this book belongs everywhere young children are. Includes tips for parents and caregivers.
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  • Teeth Are Not for Biting

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, April 15, 2003)
    “Crunch crunch crunch. Teeth are strong and sharp. Crunch crunch crunch. Teeth can help you chew. But teeth are not for biting. Ouch! Biting hurts.” Sooner or later, almost all young children will bite someone—a friend, a parent, a sibling. This upbeat, colorful, virtually indestructible book helps prevent biting and teaches positive alternatives.The companion to our best-selling Hands Are Not for Hitting Board Book, Teeth Are Not for Biting gives reasons why children might want to bite. Little mouths feel sore when new teeth come in; sometimes kids bite when they’re hungry, tired, cranky, frustrated, angry, bored, distressed, or seeking attention. Author Elizabeth Verdick suggests positive things children can do instead of biting: chew a chewy toy, drink a cold drink, get a hug, tell a grown-up. This book also includes helpful tips for parents and caregivers.
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  • Hands Are Not for Hitting

    Martine Agassi Ph.D., Marieka Heinlen

    Paperback (Free Spirit Publishing, March 15, 2009)
    4 years & up. Hands Are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi. This book teaches children learn that violence is never okay. Children can learn to manage their anger and other strong feelings. Hands are capable of positive, loving actions such as playing, making music, learning, counting, helping, and much more! Includes a special section for adults with activities and discussion starters. Paperback. 40 pages.
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  • Germs Are Not for Sharing

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, Jan. 15, 2006)
    Achoo! Cough! F-L-U-S-H! What to do? In childcare, in preschool, at home, and everywhere, toddlers need to learn that germs are not for sharing. Rather than focus on what germs are, this book teaches the basics of not spreading them: Cover up a sneeze or cough. Hug or blow kisses when you’re sick. And most of all, wash your hands! Child-friendly words and full-color illustrations help little ones stay clean and healthy. Includes tips and ideas for parents and caregivers.
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  • Noses Are Not for Picking

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, Sept. 12, 2014)
    We've all seen it— the nose-picking habit starts as early as the toddler years, and no child is the exception. Young children pick their noses for a variety of reasons, from colds to allergies to curiosity or boredom. This board book for toddlers and preschoolers is the answer to the age-old question "how can i get my child not to pick, especially not in public?"with gentle humor and kid-friendly support, this board book for toddlers and preschoolers helps guide little ones away from nose picking toward healthier habits, like using a tissue and washing their hands. Catchy words help children remember what to do; vibrant full-color illustrations bring the words to life. Throughout, the positive message shines through: noses are for breathing, sniffing, smelling. . . But not for picking!part of the award-winning best behavior series.
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  • Feet Are Not for Kicking

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, Sept. 15, 2004)
    "Look at those feet! Aren’t they sweet?” Yes—when they’re walking, standing, leaping and landing. And when they’re kicking balls or leaves. But not when they’re kicking people! In simple words and charming full-color illustrations, this book helps little ones learn to use their feet for fun, not in anger or frustration. It also includes tips for parents and caregivers on how to help toddlers be sweet with their feet.
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  • Diapers Are Not Forever

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, Aug. 10, 2008)
    Learning to use the potty takes patience and practice, and this charming, straightforward book helps pave the way. Young children learn how to use the potty and why it’s time to do so, while gaining the courage and confidence to face this important milestone in their lives. When little ones learn to “do what the big kids do” (go, wipe, flush, wash their hands), they won’t need a diaper anymore—they’ll have underwear under there! Includes tips for parents and caregivers from a children’s health specialist.
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  • Waiting Is Not Forever

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, Oct. 4, 2019)
    Toddlers learn skills for being patient that make waiting easier for everyone. Toddlers live in the moment. When they want something, they want it now. But learning self-control and delayed gratification will set up young children for success in school and in social settings. Practicing patience is the key. With her trademark mix of empathy and encouragement, author Elizabeth Verdick acknowledges that waiting can be frustrating and offers toddlers simple ideas to make waiting easier. Little ones can use waiting time to watch the world around them, listen to music, tell stories, sing songs, whisper, play games, build with Legos, draw pictures, move or stretch, and more. Children learn, “I can wait a while. I can do it with a smile.” In this twelfth addition to the best-selling Best Behavior board book series, Marieka Heinlen’s vivid illustrations of young children interacting with their caregivers and families bring warmth and fun to every spread. The book closes with tips to help parents and care providers foster patience in young children.Best Behavior® Series The Best Behavior series uses simple words and delightful full-color illustrations to guide children to choose peaceful, positive behaviors. Select titles are available in two versions: a durable board book for ages baby–preschool, and a longer, more in-depth paperback for ages 4–7. Children, parents, and teachers love these award-winning books. All include helpful tips and ideas for parents and caregivers.
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  • Germs Are Not for Sharing / Los gĂ©rmenes no son para compartir

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, April 1, 2011)
    1 year & up. Germs Are Not for Sharing/Los germenes no son para compartir by Elizabeth Verdick. In childcare, in preschool, at home, and everywhere, toddlers need to learn that germs are not for sharing. This friendly board book teaches the basics of not spreading germs: Cover up a sneeze or cough. Hug or blow kisses when you're sick. Most importantly, wash your hands! Includes tips for parents and caregivers in both languages. Bilingual English-Spanish edition. Board book. 24 pages.
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  • Pacifiers Are Not Forever

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, July 25, 2007)
    For many young children, giving up the pacifier is a major milestone. This board book offers warm, comforting words and pictures to ease the transition and make it a positive experience for kids and grown-ups alike. The focus is on minimizing stress and drama, dealing with feelings of loss and frustration, finding fun things to do without a pacifier, and finally being pacifier-free. Includes helpful tips for parents.
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  • Tails Are Not for Pulling

    Elizabeth Verdick, Marieka Heinlen

    Board book (Free Spirit Publishing, Sept. 15, 2005)
    If pets could talk, what would they say? Maybe “Fur is for petting, backs are for scratching, noses are for nuzzling . . . and tails are not for pulling!” Toddlers and pets belong together—as long as toddlers don’t chase, grab, squeeze, yank, and tease. In simple words and delightful illustrations, this book teaches the basics of kindness to animals: careful handling, awareness, safety, and respect. It also includes helpful tips for parents and caregivers.
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